I have a confession..

I’m very easy to spoil.

Not because I’m particularly demanding…

Actually, that’s a lie. I can be very demanding 😂

But I’m easy to please.

I like pretty things. I like little surprises. I like being indulged. And I especially like knowing that someone has gone out of their way to make Mommy happy.

That last part is probably my favourite.

There’s something rather lovely about opening my phone and seeing that someone has decided, completely voluntarily, that Mommy deserves a little treat today.

I don’t need a big occasion.

I don’t need a birthday.

I don’t need Christmas.

Mommy doesn’t operate on a calendar.

If I want something, I want it.

And if one of my subs wants the pleasure of spoiling me, who am I to stand in his way? 😉

I think I’ve always had quite an indulgent personality anyway. If I see something I like, my first thought is rarely “Do I really need that?”

It’s usually:

“How quickly can I have it?”

That’s probably why being a findom suits me so well.

I get to be unapologetically greedy for the things I enjoy, while someone else gets to enjoy being part of that.

And I’m certainly not going to pretend I don’t appreciate it.

If you spoil Mommy, Mommy notices.

Mommy enjoys it.

Mommy remembers it.

And most importantly, Mommy expects you to understand that her enjoyment is rather the point.

You don’t spoil me so I can tell you how wonderful you are for doing it.

You spoil me because you like knowing Mommy is sitting there enjoying something that exists because you made it happen.

That little thought makes me smile.

And perhaps that’s the real problem…

Once you’ve spoiled Mommy once, you might discover that it’s rather difficult to stop.

I certainly won’t be encouraging you to