Payment Games Aren’t Optional, Sweetheart

There’s something especially embarrassing about a sub who wants to play payment games but suddenly forgets how money works the second it’s time to follow through.

You wanted the rules. You wanted the tasks. You wanted the little rush of being told what you owe, when you owe it, and what happens when you don’t behave. But then payment time comes around and suddenly it’s excuses, delays, disappearing acts, and “I’ll do it later.”

Cute.

If we agreed that a game involves payments, then skipping one doesn’t magically erase it. You don’t get to enjoy the attention, the anticipation, the humiliation, and the fantasy, then conveniently decide the part where you actually follow through is optional.

And I’m definitely not chasing you.

I shouldn’t have to remind a grown man that he agreed to send. I shouldn’t have to hunt you down, negotiate with you, or convince you to keep your word. If I have to put more effort into collecting than you put into serving, you’ve completely misunderstood the arrangement.

Missing a payment also isn’t impressive because you “got away with it.” You didn’t outsmart your Domme. You just demonstrated that your word isn’t worth much.

That matters to me more than the amount.

A sub who communicates, respects his limits, and follows through is far more interesting than someone promising ridiculous amounts just to get attention. If you can only afford a smaller game, say that. If something changes, communicate. Your real-world necessities come before play, and no game is worth putting yourself into genuine financial trouble.

But agreeing to something you can afford and then intentionally dodging it because you think the chase is part of the fun?

No, sweetheart.

The fun is proving you can behave.

If you want the privilege of playing payment games with me, establish a budget first, understand the rules before starting, and only agree to amounts you can actually honor. Otherwise, you can sit on the sidelines and watch the reliable ones get my attention.

Because I don’t need promises.

I like proof.