I think one of the nicest things about being a woman is being allowed to be a little indulgent, and I’m very comfortable
I like pretty things, little luxuries and being able to look at something and think Yes, I want that
But there’s something I enjoy even more than buying something myself… having someone else decide that Mommy should have it
That little notification, that moment of realising someone has been thinking about me and decided they wanted to put a smile on my face… I enjoy that
I enjoy being the woman who gets spoiled, and I don’t think there’s anything wrong with admitting that
I’m not interested in pretending to be the humble little girl who doesn’t want anything
Mommy knows what she likes, Mommy knows what she deserves and Mommy certainly knows how to enjoy it when it arrives 😉
And it doesn’t always have to be something extravagant either
Sometimes it’s the smallest things that make me smile, a coffee, a little treat, something I happened to mention liking, something that makes me think Oh, you were actually paying attention
That’s what makes being spoiled so enjoyable to me
It’s not just the thing itself, it’s knowing someone wanted me to have it
And then, of course, I get to enjoy it
You don’t spoil Mommy so she can sit there feeling guilty about it
You spoil Mommy because you want to see her enjoy herself
And I’m very happy to oblige
After all… someone has to enjoy all those lovely things
Might as well be Mommy 🖤