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I Allow Lurkers & I Don't Sub Hunt

Aug 24, 2026 · 1 min read

I don't block lurkers on my free socials.

Instead, I expect them to be bookmarking my media. I expect them to be liking, commenting, and RT'ing my posts. I expect them to be engaging with my socials and at least push my account to others who do want to engage in findom.

I don't go sub hunting, because I want finsubs who want to serve and are able to serve. The thrill of being hunted is a reward that comes after showing me you are worth hunting.

If I post free media, I post it with the expectation that lurkers are going to find it and enjoy it. I post it knowing it becomes free jerk-off material.
Anything I feel deserves to be seen only by those who pay or serve is behind a paywall. I keep the REALLY good stuff private for those who earn it.

This is how I've chosen to practice. Others practice differently, and I encourage other Dommes to practice in a way that works best for them. Just because I choose not to hunt or block lurkers, doesn't mean you must practice the same way.

It is how I draw boundaries to protect my time and energy while still enjoying my exhibitionist side.

Lindy Myles
@lindymyles

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