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Submitting Vs Submission

Aug 27, 2026 · 1 min read

I have been a domme for many years now and through that I have learnt a lot. One thing that is so apparent through this experience is that many people want to submit but not everyone is a submissive.

Submissives to me are the people who truly ache for me, the people who want to make my life easier as they believe that the burden of bills is one that I should not have. The types who are happy with my presence alone and not just what I can do for them. The people who want to submit treat me like they are doing me a service by letting me dominate them. They have a warped perception that I am no longer a being and just a service. This is all wrong. I am a gift, I need to be earnt and treasured like the jewel I am, I exsist and that alone is enough. For me to decide to dominate you over the vast amount of options I have then you need to understand that I am superior and beautiful, therefore I require respect and devotion.

Don't be mistaken, I am a strict and sadistic domme, but I take care with people who value me to the full extent that I deserve. This is authentically me and how I veiw myself. Spend a little time... and money - then you may start to agree.

The Duchess
@goddesscomplex

Come with wallets open and mouth shut.

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