Supporting My Sub in a Dark Time

My bestest boy is dealing with some very heavy personal stuff right now. Some dommes might not show softness in these moments, but my style always has been and always will be nurturing and motherly. This sub consistently sends with every paycheck, has earned my trust to be useful to me with nearly everyday small purchases, and has been in my service literally over a decade.

Yes, I could use his low to manipulate and drain him more, but the reason our dynamic had its strength is the core of friendship and respect.

That doesn’t work for all dynamics. And that’s okay. But it’s what works for US. Being able to communicate as friends and support one another mutually is what makes us strong and keeps our dynamic flowing.

The beauty of this lifestyle is being able to have different kinds of relationships with different people, and for this one- right now I’m in mommy domme mode. I’m not demanding more- I’m giving more. I’m checking in regularly, asking for updates on the situation, giving him a space to vent and FEEL and process.

Subs who’ve had a Goddess like me support you in a dark time, what did she do to help you in that moment?

Dommes who incorporate nurturing into your dynamics, what extra steps do you take to support your good boys in these times?