Ethical this, unethical that…

Ignore the noise and do what feels right for your dynamic. The right subby and domme match will happen organically when all involved are transparent about their capacity and needs.

Don’t stress about what others think about what works well for YOU and your dynamic. Both sides should be sharing their needs, their feelings, their boundaries, their desire to not have boundaries…

Some are adamantly against unethical play… some are certain that they ONLY desire the thrill of unfiltered and unchained domination.

Why places like Reddit and X are filled with distaste for one side or the other is beyond me. Simply, know what your boundaries are, state them clearly, and find your match. Don’t play with those who don’t align.