Attributes That Are Attractive
One of my biggest things that attract me to subs is communication! Open and honest communication is always needed in any D/s dynamic but also just simply having some things in common and being able to vibe with one another while still keeping the respect is A+ in my books!
For me other things (besides of course being verified) is:
🖤~Respect, using honorifics at all times etc.
🖤 Showing genuine interest and curiosity by asking Me about even the little things not just kinks and limits.
🖤~Being understanding that I am a busy Domme, I'm not 24/7 but do still require a level of respect for the dynamic (see my first point).
🖤~Showing true admiration, subservience and loyalty. Like most Dommes I am not a fan of subs who flirt with other dommes, who bounce between dommes. This doesn't exactly include community subs but I am the most pleased when w community sub turns into an exclusive Astral Loyalist 💫🌌🌠
🖤~Did I already mentioned communication? I know I did but it's such a big one for Me, especially those who like to check in every so often. Who read My contracts fully and know when to come to Me and not be scared that I'll "get mad" if they need a mental health break or to change their budget. Dynamics can fluctuate, life is always changing and I understand that wholeheartedly.
🖤~Attention attention attention! This includes when I am in the chat reacting to my messages, my posts, my thread, likes and comments on social medias, financial attention to My wishlists and payment methods etc! I am quite the generous Domme with pics and praise but I need that in return. Especially love when subs then change their names, status's, social media accounts to promote Me to other subs as well as feel honored that they are owned by Me.
🖤~Heartfelt worship, this one is simple enough. I like effort. I don't just like "wow you're the best Goddess" tell Me exactly what you like think and feel when we chat, how much you love my attention and praise, how the urge to worship me is always on your mind. The longer the written worship the better.
🖤 ~Education. New subs aren't exactly my favorite, while I am a brat tamer and love me some bratty action what I don't always have the time for is uneducated subs who don't put in the effort to learn about Me, BDSM, Findom, lifestyle and more. I love molding new subs but I encourage self exploration.
🖤~Subs with good confidence, mental health and knowing themselves and what they like. No one really liked a flimsy subs that gets post nut clarity and then dips after a session or signing a contract- I enjoy the subs that know they are cute, that aren't looking for a therapist and that know what they like and seek it from Me. (Understanding again that life fluctuates, that people grow apart, I know not everyone is stable, I know that self esteem changes and even kinks change and I absolutely accept it all, I just need that communication)
All the above are why I have my amazing subs for years and years and for years to come. I still have 2 subs from when I first started out as a Domme and I pride myself in the fact that I have molded some very amazing subs who would never stray from Me. Oh and don't ruin your life for Me. Don't go broke for Me or go into real debt for Me.
It's not "hot" it's self destructive and not kinky at all.