The one where I word vomit about random things I think about the kink world

I have fantasized about being a dominatrix since I first saw Lucy Lu in Charlie's Angles in her pvc with a crop 🥵
The pure power and control she exhibited over the class, especially the men, had me hooked. But it wasn't until I was approach by a submissive that I learned I could actually make that dream a reality.

I have only been domming for 3 years, and only started irl meets last year, so take what I'm saying as something someone more new has learned, as I by no means am an expert, and I also align more with a femdom than a findom.

I've found it extremely important, and comforting in knowing my limits and sticking to boundaries. As a domme and a content creator, I've been requested all sorts of things. Being able to stick to my boundaries (including pricing), has given me so much confidence and prevents sleepless nights with thoughts of disliking my actions racing around in my head. I think very highly of myself (it has taken time to get to this level), and view access to me as a privilege. I think highly of so many others (D&s) as well, and know my access to them and their friendship is also a privilege, and one that shouldn't be taken lightly. The amount of love and respect I've been shown in the kink community is something I will forever be grateful for.

The people in the community I'm lucky enough to call my friends are all fierce and extremely amazing people. The dommes all show respect to not only each other, but to theirs and others subs as well. The subs all exhibit so much loyalty and dedication to their owners. They truly love them, and it is beautiful to see.

I think it is very important for subs to understand that they're not powerless (even if that is the goal, as I know some prefer that....cough cough my doggy). The domme may be the one who is to be desired and served, but they can only accomplish that if chosen by the sub. Subs make the decision to send, serve, and obey, and there will always be power in that.

Anyways, if you made it to the end 7 years good luck to you and your cow! 😁