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Before you Approach

Aug 18, 2026 · 3 min read

Before You Approach ME
18 / 08 / 2026
Entering my space is a privilege.
I am Queen Hades, a not so ethical Findomme who values intentional service, honesty, obedience, consistency, and genuine devotion. I enjoy foot worship, puppies and financial submission, but my dominance reaches far beyond a wallet. I am interested in the person behind the tribute: how well you listen, how honestly you communicate, and whether you can follow through after the initial excitement fades.
A tribute will gain my attention. Your behavior determines whether you keep it.

Before entering my domain:
🖤 Read my profile, rules, and available services.
🖤 Complete age verification through an approved method.
🖤 Tribute or Pay to Speak when required.
🖤 Address me as Queen, Goddess or Owner/Mummy
🖤 Introduce yourself clearly.
🖤 Share your interests, experience, and limits.
🖤 Wait respectfully for my response.
Do not send a vague “hey,” demanding free attention, or immediately unload your kinks and fantasies onto me, i'm not a machine. Approach with manners, effort, and genuine intention.
Your tribute Is only the Beginning
Of which can communicate appreciation more convincingly than a paragraph full of obsession.
But sending once does not automatically make you devoted.
I notice subs who are thoughtful, consistent, and reliable. I notice those who remember my preferences, respect my time, complete their tasks and punishments, communicate clearly, and continue showing devotion even when immediate praise is not guaranteed.

I enjoy submissives who crave the satisfaction of being useful, puppies willing to train to my standards and those who realise i'm not your previous domme.
Depending on our negotiated dynamic, serving me may include:
♥️ Rules and rituals
♥️ Obedience training
♥️ Accountability check-ins
♥️ Worship and acts of service
♥️ Permission-based play
♥️ Orgasm control
♥️ Praise and reward systems
♥️ Pet training
♥️ Writing assignments
♥️ Posture and presentation
♥️ Correction and retraining
♥️ Structured financial submission
I may be loving and caring, or strict and sadistic. The side of me you receive depends on our compatibility, your limits, my mood, and your behavior.
Softness should never be mistaken for weakness. Strictness should never be mistaken for carelessness.
Consent Is Not Optional
All Findom, Femdom, ownership, control, discipline, and financial play within my space are forms of consensual adult fantasy.
Boundaries are discussed. Limits are respected. Safewords and check-ins are taken seriously. Consent may be adjusted or withdrawn at any time by either party.
I want willing surrender
Fantasy authority does not give me legal ownership, unrestricted access to your finances, or the right to override withdrawn consent. You will never be asked for unauthorized access to financial accounts.
Responsible submissives are far more attractive than reckless ones.
What Earns—or Loses—My Attention
I value submissives who demonstrate:
👸🏻 Honesty
👸🏻 Respect
👸🏻 Consistency
👸🏻 Initiative
👸🏻 Emotional maturity
👸🏻 Sense of humour
👸🏻 Clear communication
👸🏻 Accountability
👸🏻 Obedience
👸🏻 Genuine curiosity
👸🏻 Respect for privacy and boundaries
I want submissives who understand that devotion is not merely something performed while aroused. It is shown through reliability, thoughtfulness, and sustained effort.
Dishonesty, entitlement, boundary testing, manipulation, repeated disobedience, disappearing without communication, sharing private information, irresponsible spending, or approaching while impaired will quickly end your access to me.
Ownership Is Earned
Ownership is not granted because someone asks for it, purchases an application, or sends one impressive tribute.
A collar represents trust, responsibility, compatibility, consistency, and devotion. Applicants will be required to complete an application & assessment form, follow a trial protocol, send a negotiated weekly tribute based on your income and personal responsibilities, maintain regular communication, demonstrate financial devotion, and prove that they can respect the structure of an ongoing dynamic.
Even then, acceptance is never guaranteed.
I decide who is considered for ownership—and I take that decision seriously.

Approach properly. Let your manners, obedience, and consistency speak before your desperation does. Impress me enough, and I may decide you deserve more than a passing glance.
Queen Hades 🖤

Enter willingly through the gates of the Underworld and prepare for an eternity of worship.

QueenHades
@queenhades

Queen of the underworld

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