Expectations.

If you're here, you're interested.

And that's wonderful!

But finding a happy medium where we both can thrive is so important in any dynamic I enter, and so we run into the conundrum of expectations.

First of all, if you are to serve me, you must take care of yourself. This means all your physical and mental needs must be as close to met as feasibly possible. Water drunk, meals consumed, and meds taken. You cannot possibly be of use to me if you are not taken care of outside the dynamic.

I expect conversation. Entertain me with your wit and your wallet. I want to know what makes you tic, every bit of it.

Each scene will begin with a discussion.

This is where we negotiate what each of us wants from the session, and helps us figure out what we need. This can include kinks to be included, and will almost certainly include the unsexy topic of budget, because you will not be ruining your life for kink. We can play it in the scene, but you will not be putting yourself in any actual peril for me.

I want to know what you expect from me. I cannot possibly be a good Domme to you unless you communicate with me.

This dynamic is built on trust, and I want to build that with you while enjoying ourselves.