Spoiling Me Is Fun
I think one of my favourite things about findom is how personal spoiling can feel. It isn't always about someone sending a huge amount of money. Sometimes it's just knowing that someone saw something I wanted and thought, “yeah, she deserves that.” I love that.
I like having little things paid for. I like being surprised. I like waking up to a notification and realising someone has decided to be generous with me for absolutely no reason other than they wanted to, and I think that's what separates the boys I actually remember from everyone else.
You can tell me you want to spoil me all day long, but eventually I’m going to want to see you actually do it. If spoiling me makes you happy too… well, I think we've already got something pretty fun to work with.