My domme philosophy: Men need a factory reset

I genuinely believe most men need to be restored to factory settings lol.

Like I need to get my hands on you BEFORE all the weird shit you were taught about being a man got installed.

Because somewhere along the way you were taught that you shouldn’t need attention or reassurance, you shouldn’t be too emotional, you should always be in control, you shouldn’t want to be taken care of, you definitely shouldn’t admit that sometimes you just want someone else to tell you what to do.

And I think a lot of you are fucking exhausted.

That’s a big part of my Domme philosophy. I’m not particularly interested in breaking men down and keeping them there. I don’t want you leaving me feeling worse about yourself. I want to get rid of the shit that isn’t serving you anymore and then build you back up.

I want to teach you that you can be soft and still be a man. You can be submissive and still be confident. You can want someone else in control without being weak. You can need reassurance. You can be affectionate. You can be eager to please. You can tell me you’re having a bad day instead of disappearing into your little man cave and pretending you suddenly forgot how to communicate lol.

And I’m still going to push you. I’m still going to hold you accountable. I’m still going to tell you when you’re being an idiot. You’re still going to have rules, expectations and consequences.

But I’m also going to praise you when you get it right. I’m going to notice when you’re trying. I’m going to make you feel good about being useful and thoughtful and vulnerable and obedient.

I don’t think submission should make you less of yourself. I think with the right person, it should give you enough safety to figure out who the fuck you actually are when you’re not performing masculinity for everyone around you.

Basically, give me your poorly socialized man and I will uninstall all the unnecessary software, delete the podcasts, clear the cache and return him emotionally literate and eager to please.

Factory settings. Then we rebuild. ♡