I Like Being Thought About
There’s something really attractive about a sub who thinks ahead.
Not just waiting for me to say something first. Not sitting there hoping I’ll give them a reason to be useful.
I mean actually paying attention.
Remembering what I like.
Knowing when I’ve had a long day.
Noticing when I mention wanting something and remembering it later.
That kind of effort stands out to me.
It doesn’t always have to be some huge gesture either.
Sometimes it’s literally just doing something because you know it’ll make me smile without needing to be told first ☕️
I like feeling considered.
I like knowing I crossed your mind when I wasn’t even talking to you.
And I definitely like when that thought turns into action.
That’s the kind of attention I actually remember. ✨