Attention Is Earned 🫦

Some of you think messaging me constantly is enough to keep my attention. It isn’t. 🤭

You can be sweet, funny, clingy, needy… whatever. But eventually I notice who actually does things for me and who just likes the idea of having my attention.

A random coffee. Remembering something I mentioned days ago. Doing what I asked without needing three reminders. Spoiling me just because you felt like it. 🫶🏻

Those are the little things that make me remember you.

And yes, I absolutely have favourites 💋

You don’t become one by constantly asking for my attention.

You make me want to give it to you.

Be consistent. Be thoughtful. Make yourself useful without always needing to be told.

Trust me, I notice. 🤍