MissPureLux@misspurelux
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MY DESIRES

Sep 13, 2026 · 3 min read

I have almost a decade of experience in the real life BDSM scene and over 2 years findom online, I know exactly what I want and what I do not want, I live and breath kink, it isn't role play for Me. My desires are why I am here, I am not here to pander. Findom is non negotiable with me.

In person
I save My deep femdom connections for my owned subs as they have earned that privilege I love my real time sessions and I film them for people to enjoy. These are not scripted fantasies but deeply authentic scenes showing our D/s, chemistry and connection with My subs. I pour My heart and soul into these dynamics. I create video clips because I adore showcasing deeper darker kinks that I enjoy in person and I appreciate the passive income that comes along with this. We indulge in impact, CBT, electrics, wax, needles, blood, pee, bondage, trampling, facesitting. I also make some solo femdom pov clips.

Online
My preference due to the ever changing nature of this space is light hearted play until trust is built. Community and casual interactions are welcome as long as my time and energy are respected but I keep it light to protect my peace. Not everyone is looking for ownership or a deeply involved dynamic, and that's perfectly fine.

For casual interactions , I want….
• HONESTY, just be upfront, always
• Communicate respectfully, be polite
• Unique kinks, bring them for exploration you do not have to be into all my kinks
• Deference, My honorifics are Miss, Ma’am, Princess, Goddess, Queen, Mistress
• Enthusiastic consent, you do not need to engage in kinks you don’t like!
• My favourite findom kinks are reimbursements, shopping trips, wheel spins, dice rolls, budget control, debt contracts, savings and investments
• My favourite kinks to weave in with online play are tease and denial, lush fabrics (latex, leather, lace, heels, nylons) lingerie, heels, humiliation, cuckolding, censorship, scam fetish, chastity, kneeling for me, worship

For Deeper, long term interactions, My standards become considerably higher. I want all of the above plus….

• You must have a genuine enjoyment of findom, spoiling and worship
• I have a strong preference for older subs, the older the better, no upper age limit
• Take pleasure in My pleasure
• Service submission melts my heart
• Be emotionally grounded and financially stable
• Understand that if you seek ownership this will not be discussed until after a long period of intentional and consistent service
• I am extremely selective with letting people into My inner circle and once you are inside do not fuck it up.

For ownership a minimum budget of £250 week in week out, sustained over years and you must be single or ENM. I am very open to long term dynamics that evolve

MY DISTASTES, DO NOT ASK

• I do not do pro Domme sessions, I will not meet strangers under any circumstances
• Video calls
• Porn addicted and miserable subs, no thanks, someone else will take it, I don’t want it
• Under 21
• Do not call me mommy ! or refer to me as a milf
• Sexting, camming, sessions, JOI, spitting
• “Make me submit” subs, pass, no brats generally
• Free get to know you inbox time is a HARD NO. My preference for getting to know you is discord servers. DM is paid and you will need to have a fat wallet for My one-to-one attention, minimum £50
• BDSM involves consenting human adults, anything else is non consensual and a hard no this includes real homewrecking, public play, exposure, doxxing.

• I will not entertain talk of ownership until at least 3-6 months into a dynamic. Do not come in on day one asking about this, you will be sent away. I do not want love bombing or silly promises, control yourself

Lead with respect and impress me £50 minimum tribute

MissPureLux
@misspurelux

Sensual . Hypnotic . Ethereal

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