Looking for long-term Finsubs / Paypigs (m & f) based on respect, loyalty and mutual trust.
I like submissive people with genuine devotion who enjoy willingly giving something to their Mistress and allowing themselves to be guided. Humiliation, control, begging and psychological dynamics can absolutely be part of it – but always with clear boundaries and mutual understanding. In general, I’m open to many different types of play, so feel free to tell me beforehand what kind of dynamic you’re looking for and what particularly appeals to you.
As I’m bisexual, I’m looking for both male and female Finsubs. 🖤
I also want to make it clear from the beginning that I’m in a happy relationship. Therefore, in-person meetings, sexual pictures or dynamics in which I’m personally sexually involved are not an option for me. My partner knows about my involvement in Findom.
Findom itself isn’t sexual for me either. This form of BDSM gives me the opportunity to exercise control within a safe and consensual environment. Growing up, I often felt as though I had very little control over what was happening around me, so being able to reverse those roles today has a personally empowering and healing aspect for me.
At the same time, I genuinely enjoy the dynamic and it brings me a lot of joy – it simply isn’t sexual for me. For you, however, it absolutely can be. 😉😊
What I am NOT looking for:
- no immediate access to your bank account
- no one expecting things to escalate completely after two messages
- no blackmail or manipulative behaviour outside of what has been explicitly discussed and consented to beforehand
- no demands for nude pictures or constant spamming
Discretion and trust are extremely important to me. I prefer people who communicate openly, know what they want and understand that a genuine dynamic takes time to develop.
Small tributes, attention, obedience and consistency impress me far more than big promises.
If you’re loyal, respectful and genuinely submissive, feel free to message me. Ideally, tell me a little about yourself straight away and what you’re looking for from your Mistress and from our dynamic.
Rules, boundaries and hard limits will, of course, always be clearly discussed beforehand. 🖤