What I’m Looking For in a FinDom/finsub dynamic
Dear finsubs,
Just like with My female subs, there are things I am looking for and things I am not when it comes to establishing a D/s dynamic.
I see that some of you simply want to be “owned,” and I understand that this can mean very different things to different people. With that in mind, I think it will save us both a lot of time if I simply make clear what I expect from this dynamic—and what you should expect when interacting with Me.
Without further ado:
What I’m Looking For
I'm primarily looking for submissive men who genuinely enjoy Financial Domination—men who take pleasure in serving a Dominant Man through their money and in knowing that their financial submission pleases Him.
Financial Domination is the foundation of the dynamic. I want your money to be a meaningful form of service to Me and a tangible expression of your submission. Mental domination, obedience, respect, and consistency are what give that financial service its meaning.
I value a genuine willingness to be useful to their Master. You have your own life, responsibilities, and identity. I have mine. You are here to make My life easier and more enjoyable, not to become a burden or a project I have to manage.
You don't need Me to manage your entire existence, and I'm not looking to become your Daddy, therapist, caretaker, or life manager.
Serve Me. Please Me. Tribute Me. Then go live your life.
I'm looking for a dynamic built around Financial Domination, service, and submission—not dependency or a pseudo-relationship.
What I’m NOT Looking For
I'm not looking to control every aspect of your life, become your sole purpose, or take responsibility for your wellbeing or personal decisions.
I'm not looking for romance, dating, friendship, or a relationship outside the dynamic.
If what you want is someone to manage your entire life, replace your identity, or become responsible for you, I'm not your Master.
With this in mind, please be honest with yourself and make sure this really is what you're looking for.
If you're interested in serving Me, I highly recommend that you read My rules for finsubs carefully. You can read them here: Rules for cashfags, finsubs, paypigs & financial slaves