Goddess Chanty@mamachanty
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One size doesn’t fit all

Sep 12, 2026 · 1 min read

We’re all different. We all like different things

Why is it the norm to be overly mean when it comes to talking to a sub? If that’s what you’re into then that is totally okay.

If that’s what a sub is into…cool. Oh I can be mean.

I’ll tell you what though. One size definitely doesn’t fit all.

I may be a “baby domme” but I know who the hell I am and what I want. Starting out a little mean just to set the tone so you know who is in charge. As we go further and create a good domme/sub dynamic I want to be able to have a conversation. To laugh, send memes, talk about life, and anything else.

I have a soft side, and there’s nothing wrong with that.

Now do not get it twisted. Just because I may not be overly mean doesn’t mean that I am not dominant. The two can coexist.

I can make a joke and laugh with you, and still tell you what the hell you need to do

I am not here to serve you.

I’m still in control. You are still underneath me. You’ll do as I say and when I say it.

You are here to make mama happy.

Goddess Chanty
@mamachanty

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