Having fun while domming

When I first started, I thought being a dom meant being mean, strict, Rigid. I thought being a femdom was a one size fits all. Wow, could I have been more wrong!

With the subs I had in the past and present, I learned the best dom I can be is myself. My style of domming is so diverse and I love it!

I love exploring the new kinks and see what sticks. My favorite saying I have "if there is red button, I will push it" I will try something at least once! That's why I love kink events with demos. I found out which kinks I loved and which were eh. I did needle play, electric play, impact, rope. Each one had a very different feeling and came with all kinds of learning.

Learning what kind of dom you are comes in many forms. One sub dressed him up and panties and left his balls blue from cbt and chastity.

Another sub I scold for even looking at me. I would step on him and make beg just to sniff my dirty sock.

I love the subs that let me explore another side of me. Yes, I know I'm sadistic but how mean am I?
My favorite time of being so cruel was making a sub sit in his dogs bed after I spanked his balls. 60 swats each side.

Being a dom doesn't mean you don't stop learning or you know it all. I think it's the opposite. Let's educate each other, let's help each other become the best dom/ sub we can be!