Respect is required
Many dynamics fail due to a lack of respect from both parties.
In order to build a good relationship with a sub, there needs to be some clear boundaries and mutual understanding between the domme and sub, however respect is the main thing to remember.
At the end of the day, when the play sessions are done, many subs experience a drop, or the classic post nut clarity. It’s important to offer some aftercare and ensure they’re ok - especially after a heavy session, even if their main kink is degradation or humiliation there’s still a human being on the other side of the screen.
I find that there are some times that dominants can forget this and essentially treat subs as walking wallets, this is not the case, one and done sessions are fun and not all subs want or need aftercare or even want to build a dynamic, however these are still important to remember as a dominant in this space.
Personally I love building good relationships with my subs but I prefer to have long term consistency, and have even became friends with some, particularly if there’s common interests outside of Findom.
If you made it this far, thank you for reading - remember we’re all human and let’s have some fun :)