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Budget Control + TPE

Aug 19, 2026 · 1 min read

I’m a very serious findomme I like to think. I really intend to be a business, a brand, a well known name. And the first start for me was budget control!

I made a budget tracker on google sheets for findom and femdom subs to use with me that includes an expenses tracker, an updating weekly spending calendar, a monthly bills tracker, and a debt tracker. It was a labor of love and I’m considering adding a savings tracker to it. There are tables that I’ve filled out to set a budget for the users that I can edit whenever I need to! I have a tester currently using it, but I’d love to see if it’s as effective as I think it is.

I find controlling and monitoring every aspect of a subs life to be the most fulfilling part of being a findomme. The thrill of knowing each and every transaction was thought about carefully because of the budget I’ve set or run by me first is like a drug.

The total loss of control, the total desire and will to surrender, there’s nothing better.

I also have created a “nutrition” tracker for the riskier, more experienced (or stupid) subs who love edgeplay and tpe!

There’s nothing I love more than controlling you, little peasant. I love coming up with fun new ways to do it. At the end of the day, you’re under my control.

Hybris
@highnesshybris

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