Lurking Won’t Get You Noticed

Everyone wants attention.

Very few understand how to earn mine.

Showing up in my messages with a compliment? Predictable.

Telling me how badly you want my attention? Even more predictable.

I’m interested in action.

There’s something attractive about someone who understands that without needing it explained. Someone who quietly makes themselves useful and lets their actions introduce them.

No begging.

No paragraphs explaining what you would do.

Just intention.

A tribute tells me you value my time. Consistency tells me it wasn’t an accident. And generosity?

That gets remembered.

You can watch quietly for as long as you want.

But if you want to step out of the crowd and actually catch my eye, you already know what to do.

Don’t ask to be noticed. Give me a reason to notice you.

— GoddessNoir 🖤