Let's go shopping with your money 💸🦇

My shopping list is getting suspiciously ambitious.

Coffee.

Something unnecessarily expensive.

A little luxury I absolutely don't need.

Maybe a weekend away.

Maybe something pretty.

And somewhere at the bottom, written in tiny letters:

"Someone else's problem."

That's where you come in.

I love the psychology of Findom because it's not really about the object being purchased.

It's about intention.

You see something I want.

You know you could contribute.

And suddenly that harmless little purchase becomes part of the game.

You get the anticipation.

I get the satisfaction.

Everyone gets exactly what they knowingly signed up for.

And yes, I fully support responsible financial decisions.

Which is why you should never send money you can't afford to lose.

But if you have a consensual budget for playing, and spending it on your favorite goth goddess sounds more exciting than letting it sit untouched...

Well.

My shopping list isn't going to complete itself. 🖤