Findom and Disability

We all are aware findom can be silent, include games, femdom, etc. But have you stopped to think about how disability (of any sort) affects our experience?
I can only speak from my own experience as a domme with anxiety, depression, ADHD, and, most importantly epilepsy. Not all days are the same for me. Some days are great, they’re normal, I’m 100%. Other days, my anxiety and depression could be getting to me.
My worst days are seizure days. The days that I can’t even think about interacting on apps with subs. Where even normal function is at a minimum. It makes being any kind of domme, findom or otherwise, challenging, because how does one build a dynamic when I’m have unexpected extremely low days? I think this is a lot of why games are my favorite over sessions, because I can’t predict when I’m going to need to leave a session, or even not start one that was paid for. It’s safer/easier/more fulfilling for everyone when I have the ability to follow through and I’m not….. having a moment mid sentence lol (it’s happened).
It’s difficult to be a be a domme with a disability, and I KNOW there are many dommes with worst/more debilitating disabilities than mine that do it and do it well. But sometimes, we do it all silently.