Time Wasters
I absolutely hate the increase in time waster subs lately. It becomes really discouraging and it is a blatant disrespectful thing to do. I can understand if there are subs who have a certain level of uncertainty, but it’s becoming more and more common among the community and I honestly don’t know what to do or how to go about it any longer.
There is a huge difference between genuinely needing reassurance or taking time to decide and deliberately stringing someone along, making promises, asking questions, and consuming their time without any real intention of following through. Our time, energy, and emotional investment matter too. We put effort into creating experiences, communicating, and building trust, and that should be respected just as much as we respect a sub’s boundaries and comfort levels.