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Introducing Rules to New Finsubs

Sep 3, 2026 · 2 min read

Rules for New Subs
Before anything starts read and understand the following;

I do not entertain endless chatting with time-wasters. If you are here, it's because you understand your position and what you desire is structure,control and a real dynamic.

You don’t do anything aimlessly over a fleeting feeling —you follow initiated rules with intention.

Here’s how this works:

You introduce yourself properly
•By stating your name (be it username or your name)
•Experience
•Income range
•State your limits(ranging from easy to hard)
•Safe Words and Aftercare

°You send an initial tribute to show you’re serious
°You follow instructions—no begging for attention without effort
°No endless listings of what you want done to you ,it is freeloading and you don't have any privilege to my time.
°I reward consistency, respect, and discipline.
°I ignore hesitation and excuses.
°I don't negotiate with my time,energy and peace of mind. So use yours wisely

If that aligns with you, proceed correctly.
If not, don’t waste my time.

💼 PREMIUM FINDOM CONTRACT

🔹 1. Introduction Clause

This agreement establishes a structured, consensual dynamic between the Dominant (Domme) and the Submissive (Finsub), centered on financial discipline, control, and mutual understanding of boundaries.

🔹 2. Entry Requirement

The submissive must provide:

•A proper introduction (including financial capability)
•A non-refundable initial tribute
•No dynamic begins without tribute.

🔹 3. Financial Rules

•All tributes are voluntary and non-refundable
•The submissive agrees to spend within pre-discussed limits
•No chargebacks, disputes, or reversals
•Weekly or daily tribute structure may be assigned

🔹 4. Behaviour & Conduct

•Respectful communication at all times
•No demanding attention without contribution
•Timely responses when addressed
•Obedience to assigned tasks within agreed limits

🔹 5. Boundaries & Safety

•All activities remain consensual
•Hard limits must be declared upfront
•No real-life harm or financial destruction
•Either party may end the dynamic respectfully

🔹 6. Rewards & Penalties

Rewards:

•Attention
•Praise
•Privileged access

Penalties:
•Additional tribute
•Temporary restriction of interaction
•Increased task load
•Punishment

🔹 7. Confidentiality

All interactions remain private.
No sharing of personal information without consent.

🔹 8. Agreement Acknowledgment

By proceeding, the submissive acknowledges understanding of all rules and agrees to comply willingly.

Ebony Faye🪷🧚🏽‍♀️
@ebonyfaye

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