I Take Full Control
Thinking hard about having a sub with this dynamic down the line....when it's more than just sending. When I have the power to control your finances fully. I approve or deny expenses. I tell you what you can and can't spend my money on. Your income is completely and utterly under my control, no longer your own.
Imagine before you spend anything, you must run it by me first. Imagine having your bills being paid or not be under my control. Your very livelihood depends on how bored I am, hoping its not enough to ruin you completely.
From that point on, I budget your life. Before I controlled your silly little wallet, now I control your entire existence.