Change your mindset.

The way some men view servitude is selfish.
"What do I get out of this? What pleasure does this bring me? How can I ensure I am reaching personal satisfaction and fulfillment?"

While kink, BDSM, dynamics and relationships all require mutual satisfaction to be fruitful in the long run, it's important to question why you consider yourself submissive. Is it because you want to turn your brain off and allow someone else to take the lead? Perhaps it's because it's humiliating to be bossed around by a woman. Even deeper, you may gain true pleasure from selfless servitude and cultivating your Domme's or your partner's happiness.

There is a distinct difference between being "submissive" in a way that is self fulfilling and male-centric vs selfless and woman-centric.

Which are you?