Why aimless servitude doesn’t work for me…

I don’t find them particularly interesting, and more importantly, I don’t find the dynamic satisfying for me. I’m into this kink because I genuinely get off on servitude, dedication, control, and watching someone willingly put themselves through what I require to earn my attention, approval, or reward. The possibility of denial is part of that dynamic too.

The drain itself has never been the most satisfying part for me.

What I don’t understand is watching subs constantly skip around timelines, obsessively simp over women they know are unattainable, and fiend over dommes they’ve never even sessioned with or tributed. At some point, I have to wonder what the actual dynamic is supposed to be.

And then there’s the constant complaining about being “hunted down” by dommes. That one really confuses me.

A good domme should make her interests, boundaries, and expectations obvious. If she has her interests and what she’s looking for displayed throughout her profile, a submissive has every opportunity to approach her properly or simply keep scrolling.

Yet I’ve seen the same “community subs” complain over and over about women approaching them when they’re simultaneously all over those women’s comments, reposts, and timelines.

You can’t spend your day inserting yourself into a domme’s orbit and then act shocked when she notices you.

Personally, I’d rather have a submissive who understands intentional servitude than someone collecting interactions from every domme on the timeline.

I’m not interested in being one of fifty women someone is publicly simping for. I want dedication. I want consistency. I want submission that actually means something.

That’s the part of findom I find satisfying